Oh, the mythical, simultaneous big O. Yes, we get it: Your partner is generous and makes sure you get yours before they get theirs. But reaching orgasm together could bring a whole new level of intensity to your bedroom sesh.
Eighty-nine percent of couples have achieved orgasm at the same time, but it’s a rare feat, according to NetDoctor. But simultaneous orgasm isn’t a unicorn. Here are some tips to make this fantastic moment happen more often in your sex life:
- Work those kegels. You know those muscles you squeeze when you have to pee, but have to hold it? Those are your kegels. The stronger they are, the more likely you are to have powerful orgasms. Bonus: You can give them a workout anytime, anywhere.
- Hit that “spot.” It takes knowing your partner to hit the coveted G-spot, but you can always have so much fun while learning. Luckily, there are pillows created to support our bodies in order to make hitting the angle easier.
- Lube is key. Don’t be shy about adding some lubrication to your situation. Repeat after me:
Slippery is sexy.
- Slow down. There is no rush to the finish line. Seventy-five percent of men orgasm every time they have sex, compared to just 28 percent of women. Those stats aren’t really in our favor, but they can be if you have a partner who puts you first and considers your needs. Also note that men can use a love ring to delay ejaculation during intercourse.
- Don’t forget your clitoris. I mean, how could we forget that powerful little bundle of nerves that delivers tons of pleasure? But it happens. Masturbation helps to stimulate this part of your body, and your partner can also use his fingers or tongue to stimulate it, as well.
From Hello Beautiful